“I was about 12 years old when I realised that my parents weren't biologically my parents. And so, all of these questions were raised about whose fault it is, what was the situation, what happened?
A lot of kids are put in the situation where they associate the blame either on the parent, or on themselves. I know that a lot of people do blame themselves for what's happened, and it's quite sad.
After you realise that your parents aren't actually your parents from birth, you've got to be strong to be able to get through and get past that sort of stuff. So I definitely feel that my care experience has made me a lot more robust and a lot more aware and self-aware of what's going on.”
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